A few days ago, I had a quite interesting conversation with a friend of mine. Before I’m able to talk about it, I would like to introduce you to his situation.
Seven years ago, when we were still in school, he fell in love with a girl in his class. He resisted in dating any other girl. All the other guys around him thought he was kind of crazy, because she was already in a relationship back then. So obviously, there was no chance for him to be with her. It didn’t matter to him, he just wanted to be with her. When she broke up with her boyfriend, he told her about his feelings for her, but she didn’t have any similar feelings for him. So, they agreed on being just friends. After another failed relationship, she came back to him and was open to try being with him. They have been in a relationship for almost five years now and apparently, it worked out for them, because the both seem to be happy.
While talking to him, he explained that he starts to feel uncomfortable with his situation. He never had sex with any other woman than his girlfriend and as a man he should have sex with more women in his life than just one. I was stunned and asked him if he is not satisfied with his sex life, but he declined. The actual problem is, that he kind of feels pressured to be unpleased with his situation. He feels like a sub-male just because he had sex with only one woman in his life. That sounds creepy, doesn’t it?
Males should try to have sex with as many women as possible, but females shouldn’t have more sexual partners than one. That seems to be common sense. If you ask me, I think it’s just stupid. A male isn’t weak just because he decides to have just one sexual partner and a female isn’t a bitch just because she decides to have several sexual partners. Everyone should be able to make their own decisions about their sexual life without feeling bad for it (as long as the sexual partner isn’t a minor and agreed on everything). There is no such thing as a leaderboard which counts your sexual contacts, so just enjoy sex without paying attention on quantity!